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like no one is watching, Love like you'll never be hurt, Sing like no one is listening, Live like it's heaven on earth. -William Purkey- send in by Loc post date:9-15-06 |
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Right
and Wrong - Good and Bad By Bac Han ( Class of 69 - 72 ) 韓博光 |
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Iˇd like to take this opportunity to share my thoughts with all KhaiMinhˇs good friends about our perception of life. Today topic is Right and Wrong, Good and Bad which is an extremely crucial matter affecting our lives days and nights. Because of this concept, politics have been established and people have fought and hurt each other and millions have sacrificed their lives to protect it. First of all, let's me illustrate by using this example, there is one inch ruler which is laid next to 2 inches ruler, the 2 inches is longer than one inch, now letˇs lay another 3 inches beside 2 inches ruler, 2 inches was called long before now it becomes short. 2 inches was considered long if we donˇt lay 3 inches next to it. It is considered relatively long when we compare things. 2 inches ruler is not always long, things keep changing based on conditions. Right and wrong is relatively limited in Space. In Afghanistan, women have to wear veils to cover from head to feet and married women should not let other men see their faces. People in Afghanistan think thatˇs right and good moral, if some married women with bikiniˇs hang around in the beach or in swimming pool, they will be sentenced to death, serious violation of the Muslim custom. But that custom is considered wrong in the West. The Majorityˇs thinking may not be necessarily right. Something is considered right in some geography may be considered wrong in different geography. Right and wrong are undefined, that's the law of relativity. Good and bad is relatively limited in Time, remember back in the old
days in Vietnam when I was a teenager during "hippie phenomenon",
we liked to have long hair. Majority of the society consider those with
long hair were not good kids, bad boys, no education and it also had
bad judgment on the parents as well. But now in Vietnam, people who
shave their heads would be considered not good people; they would be
classified as people have just been released from prison. Shaving their
heads are most likely considered bad people, except monks and nuns with
their yellow robes on. Good and bad is also relatively speaking, just
like right and wrong. Peopleˇs perceptions are changing from time to
time even in the same society. Why the laws keep amending from time
to time, because what people think in the past may not be the same as
people think in the present. Different generation has different perception
over the same issue. So how do we define the border of good and bad,
what is good for one person could become bad for others. Same as the
food, like "strong smell Tofu from KongKong", "strong
smell fish sauce from Central of VietNam" some people like it,
some can not put up with the smell. How do we define something is good
for everyone. Albert Einstein had also discovered the law of relativity. For example a day to a prisoner whom is locked in a sheet metal cell under the sun would be as long as a month, but to a person who is having a good time in Hawaii beach would be as short as an hour. Our cells and blood keep changing every second and our psychology, thinking, point of view also keep changing due to the conditions and environments. Therefore I think there is no such thing so called right or wrong, good or bad, the concept of right, wrong, good, and bad are the Relativity of Dualism. Our perceptions keep changing constantly. It depends on which angle you are standing looking at the problem, and most of the time we don't see all aspects of the problem due to ego, ignorant, prejudice, arrogant and lack of compassion. People have the tendency to think that he/she is right and other is wrong, which often leads to argument, depression, anger, fighting and finally killing. No need to argue and get angry, there is a solution in our suffering world; we have to put ourselves in everyone's shoes. Establishing good communication and cultivating compassion are the best weapons we should use to solve our daily conflicts. Wishing you all having a peaceful and tranquility mind.
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